How to Get a Hairstyle You Won't Hate
Tip #1: Pick the right stylist for you. If you have curly hair, for
example, find someone who specializes in super-curly cuts. Curly hair
is tricky to cut so it's best to call ahead to a large salon & ask
for their specialist. Keep in mind that a stylist WITH curly hair will
know exactly where you're coming from. The same goes for getting your
brown hair colored red (ask for someone who does lots of new redheads),
getting your boring hair cut 'funky' & getting a perm (you want
someone who does a lot of them).
Tip #2: Do your homework Nothing annoys a stylist more than when
someone sits down in their chair & tries to explain the cut they
want without a picture.
Tip #3: Never say, 'Do whatever you want.' The beauty editor of
'O' magazine tells of the time a world-renowned hairstylist offered to
do her hair & she let him do whatever he wanted since the cut was
free. Oops. Big mistake. The lesson in this is that it's rarely a good
idea to give your hair completely over to a stylist. After all, you
don't want to be the practice mannequin for a new look the stylist is
dying to try out. Do you?
Tip #4: When talking length, show with your hands. One of the most
common disappointments I hear about from those with 'Hair Horror
Stories,' is the 'I Told Her Three Inches & She Lopped Off Eight'
stories. A stylist once taught me a great trick, never say you want 3
inches off, actually take your hand & karate chop it right where
you want her/him to go. And feel free to say, 'No higher, please.' My
advice: Keep your hand there & have the stylist stand back &
soak in just where you want your hair cut to.
Tip #5: Schedule in 10 minutes for a consultation. If you're doing
your own version of 'Extreme Makeover' & have plans to drastically
realign your looks, for heaven's sake do plan a good 10-15 minute
consultation with the colorist & stylist. They need to see what
your hair looks like dry & styled as you typically style it. This
tells them a lot: How much time you really put into your hair each day,
how your hair dries & how healthy your ends are.
Tip #6: Listen to your stylist. If the woman in your picture has ash
blonde hair & you'd make a much better butter blonde, chances you
won't know this, but your stylist will. Be sure & ask questions:
'What type of color best suits me?' 'Do you think my hair can look like
this picture of Cameron circa 2001?' 'How long will this haircut take
me to style in the morning?' And if your stylist says, 'No, I'm sorry,
but there's no way I can make you look like Cameron circa 2001,' you'd
better listen, because chances are you won't.
Tip #7: Be honest with your stylist. Yes, you'd love your stylist to
think you'll love your new hairstyle enough to baby it every morning
with 10 products, 20 minutes drying time & 15 minutes styling time.
However, the truth is, if your morning routine for the past 20 years
includes a quick wash followed by a towel dry & ending with a soppy
wet ponytail, you'd better tell you're stylist so or you'll end up with
a fancy, layered, curling ironed & hairsprayed 'do that takes hours
to replicate. Trust me, I've been there.
Tip #8: Tip appropriately or beware the bad haircut next time.
Proper tip is 15% for your stylist & $5 for the person who washes